Dave Chappelle says in one of his stand ups '.......men are not gentle anymore because women killed it......There is a fundamental difference in the way we see things....Our taste in life are different....a woman's taste in life is material....a man's taste in life is a woman.....Men have nice cars not because they like nice cars but because they know women like nice cars....."
Every morning one of Kenya's most listened stations airs the drama of relationships ranging from broken marriages, relationships, family feuds, you mention it.
What stands out the most is the priority given to financial stability. Steady love is costly my friend. Women talk about their dream man driving a great car, having a house blah blah blah.....
Women have become home wreckers. They are no longer ashamed to be mistresses. They are no longer ashamed to sleep around with the so called 'rich man'. They treat the low income earning men like dirt. All in the quest for a better life....really?!!!
I know...men have their own issues too,but I doubt if half of them are about money. Men simply want comfort, understanding, care, good food, great sex and that's it. It may be about money if there is a gold digging lady involved and always, he is being used.
I don't disagree that you need financial stability from your male partner but lets be reasonable. This things don't just come to people overnight. They incorporate hard work, dedication,patience, team work.
I bet most successful marriages started from scratch. They both had nothing but managed to work together to build wealth, love and family.
To the women all over the world and especially Kenya....."Do you agree?" If not please feel free to share your views....
Otherwise be sweet,be thoughtful and please be reasonable.....Life is more than just having money.....
Cheerz!!! ladies and gentlemen.....
money is the only thing that makes the world go in circles. i would not blame the women,the society has moulded us to be money minded creatures
ReplyDeleteYeah, Money has evolved. The world today is being held together by the availability of money. Money has been proportionately equated to power. U got money, u can do whatever you want.... It is sad that this is trickling down into family. Is it even trickling down, or is that where it all brews anyway. Take this example, a married man, gathers enough money in his work that he commands so much more in his household that he does not want to hear his wife say anything at all regarding how he spends 'his' money. And have u seen a household where the wife is better of financially than the husband... I shall not even mention what happens there. So, guys, we've been moulded, we've been furnished and designed to believe Money is everything, we've become myopic. Getting out of this brainwash, needs more than just inner strength and understanding... It needs a redefinition of one's self...
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